Shivakantjha.org - MY ANCESTORS
MY ANCESTORS
Unrecorded, unrenown'd,
Men from whom my ways begin,
Here I know you by your ground
But I know you not within -
There is silence, there survives
Not a moment of your lives.
Like the bee that now is blown
Honey-heavy on my hand,
From his toppling tansy-throne
In the green tempestuous land -
I'm in clover now, nor know
Who made honey long ago.
Edmund Blunden, Forefathers
In most of my writings on evolutionary biology, I emphasize
the unity of humans with other organisms by debunking the usual, and ultimately
harmful, assumptions about our intrinsic self-importance and domination as the
most advanced creatures ever evolved by a process predictably leading to our
direction. All basic evidence from history of life leads to an opposite interpretation
of Homo sapiens as a tiny, effectively accidental, late-arising twig on an enormously
arborescent bush of life.”
Stephen Jay Gould , Britannica
Book of the Year 1999 p.6
Sir W.S.Gilbert (1836-1911) said : “I can trace my ancestry
back to a protoplasm primordial atomic globule. Consequently, my family pride
is something inconceivable”. In most cases we trace our ancestry not out of
desire to assert family pride. It is a process of discovering one's identity
.
In many moments of life, full of sound and fury, I reflected
upon my great ancestors trying to know whatever I could from persons better
placed to know about them. I developed interest in discovering my family's past
inspired by the remarkable work done in the field of genealogy by organizations
like the New England Historic Genealogical Society, the Augustan Society, the
Society of Genealogists of U.K., the International Confederation of Genealogy
and Heraldry (in Denmark).The insightful comments by Daniel Webster:
It is a noble faculty of our nature which enables us to connect
our thoughts, sympathies, and happiness, with what is distant in place or
time ; and looking before and after, to hold communion at once with our ancestors
and our posterity. There is a moral and philosophical respect for our ancestors,
which elevates the character and improves the heart. Next to the sense of
religious duty and moral feeling, I hardly know what should bear with stronger
obligation on a liberal and enlightened mind, than a consciousness of an alliance
with excellence which is departed; and a consciousness, too that in its acts
and conduct , and even in its sentiments and thoughts, it may be actively
operating on the happiness of those that come after it.
I knew that Sri Kirti Nath Jha (popularly known as Kirtu Babu)
of Koilakh had a rich library of old records of all important families of Mithila,
and he was a genealogist of great eminence. He assisted me in my pursuits and
drew up detailed genealogy, an abstract wherefrom is now put on this website
as my family tree till my point. My ancestor Hardutta Jha, who lived during
the time of Ala-ud-din Khalji (early 14th Century) is at the apex in the recorded
genealogy. In the tenth generation after him came Rudra Jha whose daughter's
son was Mahesh Thakur. Akbar the Great appreciated his scholarship and wisdom
by granting him vast property with which begins the history of the illustrious
family Raj Darbhanga, an impartible estate of which the last holder was the
celebrated Maharajadhiraj Dr Sir Kameshwar Singh. I could gather detailed information
on account of the system of panjis (registers) maintained so meticulously
by certain families known as the panjikars . I must record my gratefulness
for Maharaja Harisimhadeva who “ordered detailed genealogies to be scientifically
recorded for the first time on panjis (registers) in c. 1310 so that
marriages within forbidden degrees of relationship may not take place. He made
it obligatory for every person to get a certificate of non-relationship between
the two contracting parties from the genealogists.
II
It is conventional to refer to the earliest ancestors in samkalpa
mantra which is recited while resolving to undertake some sacred resolution.
It is mentioned by specifying one's gotra. My adi purasha (the earliest
person known was Kashyap. Kashyap gotra is the most ancient and the
most comprehensive all the gotras. The tradition tells that he was
greatly religious and a lot of mysteries got associated with his personality.
There is a strange story about him in the Mahabhartha and the Bhagvad Purana.
His father was Marichi, one of the six mental sons of Lord Bhrahma. What better
example of the art of begetting a son psychic primal psychic power! Those, who
burn midnight oil to discover the paternity of Jesus, can get some light from
this story. It is said that Kashyap married seventeen daughters of Daksha Prajapati
from whom were born gods, demons, monsters, horses, nymphs, trees, heavnly damsels,
snakes, cows, buffaloes, dangerous animals, birds including vultures, marine
creatures, butterflies and insects. Because of the comprehensiveness of his
countless progeny it is generally believed that the entire animate world descended
from Kashyap. The gotra after him is so widely inclusive that whosoever is not
sure about his gotra is taken to be of the Kashyap gotra ; be they
men, birds, beasts, trees: in short, creatures of all sorts. Whether he was
their real progenitor or mere teacher is hardly irrelevant. He was the father
either way. What is more important is that his story makes me conscious of the
umbilical bond that unites us not only with the humans of all colours and all
lands, but even birds and beasts, in fact, even with trees and flies. This sense
of fraternity ensues from the consciousness of being just part of the whole
which should constantly dissolve himself in the whole:
That which is the Supreme Soul of the entire Universe
That is the Soul of all the Creatures
That Immortal Soul Sachhidanand I am.
This world-view promoted a rich and vibrant environmental
ethics which has become a subject matter of intensive study world over. I wish
the proponents of the Kyoto Protocol to the United Nations Framework Convention
on Climate Change draw inspiration from this, and the USA discovers wisdom to
become a party to promote a noble cause for the benefit of man, all other beings,
and this earth which we burden through our existence.
The story of Kashyap removed some clinging certain long-lingering
doubts about certain points pertaining to ontology. How could Evil originate
in God's World ?. The Holy Bible, John Milton's Paradise Lost and Paradise
Regained assert the triumph of the Good over Evil. They assume their existence,
it seems. to wager on us! But this story is a metaphoric way of saying that
all the forces for good and bad grow from His majesty, exist in his province
and provenance, and end in His realm. In the Bhagavadgita Lord Krishna
says: “I am immortality and also death, both Existence and Non Existence” (ix.19).
The story of Kashyap deepened my understanding of this cosmic grammar into an
existential mystery which I try solving with the zeal of Sisyphus .
It is also believed that persons having a common gotra
were the students of the same Rishi or teacher. Kashyap was perhaps most
eminent. He figures even in the Rigveda . Under our tradition guru
(teacher) has the same status which father has. From this ancient consanguinity
or affinity, that existed between the descendants or the disciples (or the herdsmen)
of Rishi Kashyap, a practice in later times grew preventing marital relationship
amongst the members of the same gotra . There was a time when marriage
between persons of the same gotra was considered invalid. Now it is no longer
so. Yet this sort of marriage is not appreciated in our society battered though
it is now under the western impact.
III
The genealogical tree of my family shows that we had our roots
at Sakradih, a small desolate village not very far off. I have not visited the
place though I have heard a lot about it. But one becomes nostalgic when one
thinks about one's roots. I wish some day to visit Sakradih wherefrom strides
were made by my family in the recorded history. In fact, I wish some day to
visit the valley of the river Omo in Ethiopia near Lake Rudolf where man is
believed to have evolved first. This nostalgia for the immediate past cannot
make me forget the remote past which must have existed as we exist.
It is natural for mind to travel from the family tree (Vamnsa
Vriksha) to the Cosmic tree (Samsara Vriksha). The Bhagavadgita in the first
three Slokas in chapter 15. describes this Cosmic Tree. The very first Sloka
says ;
urdhvamulam adhahsarham
asvattham pratur avyayam
chandamsi yasya parnani
yas tam veda sa vedavit
[They speak of the imperishable asvattham (peepal tree) as
having its root above and branches below. Its leaves are the Vedas and he
who knows this is the knower of the Vedas. (translation by Dr. S. Radhakrishnan).]
The idea to represent Samsara as a tree (Vriksha)
is wonderful. The etymological meaning of Vriksha is that which can be
cut down. There is no way knowing how may of my ancestors could cut and acquire
liberation (moksha) and how many of them are still clinging to the
Sansar Vriksha. When we reflect over the roots of the Sansar Vrikhsa ,
spreading with branches and leaves luxuriating down below we are amazed at the
sublime creativity of God. Mind goes to the stimulating idea of Prof Gould,
with which this Chapter is announced, “ Homo sapiens as a tiny, effectively
accidental, late-arising twig on an enormously arborescent bush of life”.
A Vansa Vrikhsa presents rich imagery suggesting
the pattern of life itself. Persons come, spend sometime in the Sansarvriksh
and than leave for some unknown abode. The birds come, create their nest,
and then they desert it without qualms. The idea underlying the process is beautifully
stated in the Bhagavadgita (II.28)
avyaktadini bhutani
vyaktamadhayani bharata
avyaktanidhanany eva
tatra ka paridevand
[Being are unmanifest in their beginnings, manifest in the
middles and unmanifest again in their ends, O Bharata (Arjuna), What is there
in this for lamentation? ]
It is interesting to note that whilst writing his Ecclesiastical History
Bede said:
“ Such O king, seems to me the present life on earth, as
if …. on a winter's night a sparrow should fly swiftly into the hall and,
coming in one door, instantly fly out through another …. Somewhat like this
appears the life of man. But of what follows or what went before we are utterly
ignorant.”
IV
Many of my ancestors were great Pandits. Their writings, perhaps,
do not survive. Possibly for two reasons. First, the frequent occurrence of
fire in their houses made of wattle and daub having thatched roof made of hay.
Leaking rain water and prolific colonies of white ants destroyed their work.
Secondly, it was unfortunate that the Maithil Pandits did not believe much in
disseminating their ideas by circulating the copies of their writings. An illustration
to drive my point home: Gangash Upadhyaya, a great Maithil Pandit of the 13th
century, wrote the Tattvachintamani. It is said that the Pandit did not allow
Pandit Pakshadur of Nawadip to copy it. But the work was so valuable that the
great Pandit took it by heart on mere listening the work being read. He taught
this magnum opus of Navvyanay to the scholars at Nawadip. The persons who were
taught this included Jagadish Tarkalankar and Mathuranath. Bhattacharji . They
developed a synthetic logic by integrating ideas from the Vedic, Buddhist, and
Jaina sources. Only a few years back Pandit N.S Ramanuja Tatacharya wrote a
commentary on it which fetched him high appreciation and reward from the Central
Government. I find from my genealogy that that the recorder (P anjikar)
recorded the title of tarkapanchanan on Tunni Jha.
I cannot cast the focus of my searchlight beyond Deenbandhu
Dukhni Jha. He was the great grandfather of my grandfather Grihinandan Jha.
His adjective Deenbandhu suggests that he must have been an acknowledged benefactor
of the suffering souls. My deeper research brought out materials to support
this inference. The Pangikars add only in rare cases some adjectives to reveal
the life and work of persons on their records. His financial resources were
meagre. If the family tradition is to be believed he assuaged the suffering
souls and was always ready to help others with good advice. He would come to
render help even to the lowliest. As he was removing sorrows of others he came
to be known as Dukhni (no sorrow). Such persons practice the wisdom of the Vedanta
in their lives. In fact, he got a suggestive title which recalls Tunni Jha who
too had earned the title of bandhuvardhan (worker for the betterment
of all). Dukhni Jha's son was Jayadutta. His mother was a great devotee of Kali.
In the village Koilakh (in the district of Madhubani) there is an ancient temple
of the Goddess; it is a sidhapeath . Jaya is the name of
the Goddess. She believed that her son was on account of the divine grace she
got from the goddess .
Those days in the Maithil there was a social system under which
certain Brahamins were accorded high social status because of their learning
and purity of life style. No worldly pleasures or persuasions could make them
depart from the sacred paths of life prescribed in the Shastras. Even amongst
the select few further classifications were made keeping in view the steadfastness
of the persons in such noble pursuits. The persons of the highest grade were
called the Sotreyas. After them there was a segment of the distinguished persons
(Bhalmanush) who in turn were further divided into sub-sets named after the
most illustrious persons in their families (called Pangi Baddha). Similar select
persons were most prominent in the West Benga and Mithilal. They were called
the Kaulins. During the Sen Dynasty Kaulinism was greatly prevalent in Bengal.
But in Mithila this elitists system continued without degeneration which had
set in Bengal to make Kaulinism a hateful institution. As a mode of social climbing,
rich people established marital relations with the high class Brahamins.
My great grandfather Bhaiyee Jha was a man of great social
distinction in his village. He had an interesting personality. During his youth
he was under the spell of the love songs of Vidyapati. He had a mellifluous
voice and an astute mastery over the rhythm of Maithili language. He had a rich
vocabulary of romantic anecdotes. In the closing years of his life he lived
on a different wave length. He continued his interest in Vidhyapati but it was
the Vidhyapati of Chaitanya and Chandidas. Same words are enjoyed in different
ways in different phases of one's life. This is quite a unique quality of Vidhyapati's
poetry that persons as dissimilar as Mahaprabhu Chatanya and the rabid pleasure-seekers
develop intense appreciation for the same poetic text. The great Bachhan very
aptly sang:
Towards end of his life, Bhaiyee Jha spent all his time reciting
with rhythmic variations the names of God as formulated in Kalisantaramupanishad
--
Hare Rama Hare Ram Ram Ram Hare Hare
Hare Krishana Hare Krishana Krishana Krishana Hare Hare.
I was told that he was enjoying such ecstatic delight that
he could hum this mantra till the end of his life. I was wondering how one could
keep on reciting for hours over all the days. My amazement turned boundless
when I was an adolescent, I heard Bhuso Baba enjoying peace and beatitude by
humming, I felt, at least 18 hours a day:
Narayana Narayana Narayana
Sri Mann Narayana Narayana Narayana
Bhajmann Narayana Narayana Narayana
But I could comprehend the prime-mover when I reflected on
the quality of beauty so felicitously described by Vidyapati when, in one of
his love songs, he reflected on Love and Beauty which could become fresh and
new every passing moment (til til nutan hoi).
V
My grand father was Grihinandan Jha, the youngest of his father's
several sons. When he died in 1943 I was almost six. I have his vivid memory.He
was tall and lanky. His bones were so prominent through ebony-coloured skin
that as a student of physiology I had no difficulty in understanding the bony
system of human body. Had he not been my dear grandfather I would have gone
into trance just on observing him during such hours of day or night when we
believed the ghosts trod assuming human shapes. The ugliness of his exterior
was substantially offset by his heart which was by all standards of 24 carat
gold. He was the best friend of children. With a remarkable sense of empathy
he could get involved in our world. He helped us in building castles out of
mud and sand. He shared with us the shocks which we felt on seeing them crumble
down. His zest to rebuild them vied with ours. On the canoes he manufactured
from paper and cardboard, I used to transport many ants and insects to hell
by putting them afloat in the rainy streams.. There was macabre delight in seeing
the tiny creatures struggling for life in the rivulets till most of them were
lost in the swirls and whirls of waters. Some survived panting on the straws
and twigs floating down the water or resting crouched in the grassy mud.. When
I was of five he inducting me into his school to train me in some useful arts.
What I liked most was his managing of the bullocks geared to a common rope for
moving round and round a bamboo pole facilitating the separation of paddy from
hay. It was usual to start the work in the wee hours. Amidst the chiming of
the bells of the bullocks I could often recite the Sanskrit Slokas which my
grandfather had taught me. He would often show his toothy grin as a mark of
appreciation.
We looked up to him for guidance in all arts and in all crafts.
But the fact of the matter was that by the present-day standards he was illiterate.
Like Kabir Das he had not even touched paper and ink. But like him my grandfather
had practical prudence. Now I feel that he was just one of the so many who learned
the nuggets of wisdom from traditional lores and from healthy interactions in
the village society still maintaining our traditional culture. He could narrate
the stories of the Mahabharata and of the Ramayana in charming style. For us
he was a colossus of learning. When someone asked him whether he felt embarrassed
on account of his illiteracy he said : “ I am illiterate but not without education.”
The dichotomy he made between illiteracy and education is remarkably valid now
when we tend to consider that knowing alphabet alone is enough.
As was the practice those days my grandfather was married early.
The only ostensible wealth that he had was his status as a high class Brahmin.
He was sore that his forefathers had made a social climbing down from the highest
grade of Brahamins called Sotrya by marrying into the families of persons somewhat
lower in scale. He was married early with a daughter of Govind Narayan Coudhary,
a scion of a very distinguished feudal family of village Kurson. The Choudharys
were very sophisticated people, had plenty of wealth, and commanded a vast aura
of social prestige. My grandmother was one of the most beautiful women that
God ever created. I can recall her when she was in her eighties. Her face was
exquisitely sculptured and immensely vivacious. She was tall and had a wheatish
complexion . She had glossy silver hair making her seen as a white cloud in
the autumn sky. Often I remembered her on seeing the images of Durga during
the Durga Puja. In my assessment she was a masterpiece in God's oeuvre. She
had a measured gait; and she spoke chaste Maithili in tone low but mellifluous.
She was a past master in the art of story telling. She used her words with extreme
parsimony and she never compromised her majestic demeanour outshining the grace
and gravity of the Greek ladies immortalized by the Renaissance artists. We
flocked to her whenever it was possible to do so to hear the yarn of the never
never land. She brought up seven children, five sons and two daughters. She
managed well four daughters-in- laws. A remarkable feat.
Everybody felt that the marriage of a beautiful damsel of blue
blood was an act of extreme indiscretion of her parents. But the way they spent
six decades and odd years of their wedded life convinced everyone around that
they were really made for each other. The economic management of a poor man's
household is always difficult With very scarce resources of the family she discharged
her obligations with a finesse which amazed everyone.
The Choudhries of Kurson were astute and wise much beyond the
most. amongst the Brahmins they belonged to the ordinary run. Those days the
rich Brahmins of the ordinary run often desired to give there daughters in marriage
into the families of high distinction amongst the Brahmins. This fact was widely
recognised during the Sen dynasty in Bengal. This led to the natural consequence
of the operation of the Law of Demand and Supply. As such distinguished and
much sought-after bridegroom were obviously in short supply, many of them had
several wives. In Bengal there were persons having more than hundred wives.
In ours society persons were perhaps not so enterprising. The line was drawn
generally at twelve so that one could spend a month in every in-laws' house.
My grandfather's brother showed moderation by having only four wives. The Choudharies
did want to go up on the social scale but did not wish to allow the son- in-law
to roam about as a gentleman at large.
But the causa proxima of my grandfather's migration from Koilakh
to Kurson was something grotesque. My father, who was his third son, wetted
the soil in the family courtyard in village Koilakh. This non-event was blown
out of proportion. Many elderly ladies had a bee in their bonnet and they raised
an uncouth wordy warfare which was painful to my grand mother with refined taste
and sophiscated sensibility. Her feudal mentality could not put up with things
of that sort. She knew the enormous love that her brother had for her. She sent
a massage to him. And Krishna Narayan Choudhary, her brother, came on an elephant
to take her and her children to Kurson. She went to Kurson never to return to
Koilakh.
My grand father remained in close touch with members of his
father's family in Koilakh where he had a petty share in the heriditament which
to my grand father's shock was sold by my third uncle.. As my grandfather's
family grew the Choudharies provided them with a permanent habitation in the
garden of Karmilli in the eastern side of the village surrounded by lush green
trees quite adjacent to a water pond, one of the loveliest spots I have ever
seen.Eden.
My grandfather did not escape the fate of those who abandon
their roots for better pastures. When self-confidence is lost creativity is
always at a discount. This is a constant in human affairs as much as in the
affairs of nations.. My grandfather simply existed for six decades and odd.
He never had to bother for his creature comforts. My grandmother managed the
house hold with wisdom (I wish the Finance Minister of our country should have
at least a fraction of it ! .)In the waning years of his lives he was often
gnawed by the idea that his life was not well spent. The anguish of his innermost
heart tinged his devotional songs, mostly by Vidyapati. But he was always at
his natural ease. He accepted things as they came to him . I felt that he was
always ready to accept divine dispensation without grudge and grumble. He had
a attained a state of mind of sarvaswaswikar (a frame of mind that
accepts everything that happens) with gratitude towards God (ahobhava).
My grand father had two prime pursuits: (i) singing Kritans
and (ii) enjoying bhang. The Kritans were quite popular. The illustrious ancestors
of the Choudharies had built the temples of Sri Ram, Sri Krishna, Maa Durga
and Mahadeva. The worship of the different deities gave a variety to the content
and style of the Kritans . For the Kritans at the Sri Ram temple, I felt, Tulsidas
was the guiding force whereas the Kritans in the Radh Krishan temple were under
the impact of Vidhyapati and Chaitanya. The Kritans in the Durga Mandir illustrated
the best in the Sakta traditions. And the Bhajans of Mahadeva had a wide verity;
from supplication for wealth to the heart-felt solicitation for mercy to grant
mukti in Shivadham when one casts off one's body. My grandfather had a rich
stock of Kritans of all types which he sang to everyone's delight. The rhythm
of his body indicated the intensity of his feeling, and he belongs to the Chaitanya
tradition.
My grandfather's second pursuit was
not his secondary pursuit. In fact, he lived on the co-ordinates of bhakti and
bhang. During my adolescence I had only once taken bhang the herb said to be
so dear to God Mahadeva. It was a strange experience which left an indelible
mark on my mind. One ball of bhang transported me to swim through the waves
of all colours for two days. I swam through various patterns of pure colours
in their horizontal and vertical rectangles. Now, in retrospect, I feel that
I experienced a sort of parody of the impressionist Monet.(this idea has occurred
to me on seeing the Parody of the Impressionist Monet ‘Cathedral Number II'
by Roy Liechtenstein). My grandfather was a connoisseur par excellence of bhang.
He took almost two hours two prepare it. In a bowl of stone he put a fistful
of the leaves to soak water for softening. Much skill preceded in selecting
the appropriate leaves and in subjecting them to a delicate process of drying
in the sun and shade. With the stroke of a thick guava-stick he would carefully
crush the leaves stroking them with increasing impact with each effort at the
preparation of bhang. He often sang songs while crushing the bhang leaves, turning
them into fine paste to shape that as a billiard ball.. Everybody in the village
believed that his bhang had some special properties on account of the music
that he mixed with it. He would gulp the big ball in one go. And then he drink
a plenty of water from a shining copper pot. After some time he was a blessed
soul with a valid permit to move from the world of ordinary existence to the
world of shifting colours, and super-fine joys. There was something remarkable
with him. He can shift from the matters of this terra firma to the gossamer
world of wild goose chase on the waves of colours. My grandfather could shuttle
between the two worlds with natural ease. If anybody talked to him he found
in him a balance and composure not commonly found. He was always ready to advise
others. He never realised that generally advice is something which is rarely
taken if offered gratis. Because of his amiable nature his counseling was never
receiving anybody's indifference. His logic was impeccable as he always supported
his views with the stories of the Panchatantra .
He was affable and amiable and could often be cruelly candid.
Those days people did not feel offended if their defaults were pointed out.
Kabirdas had advised that for self-improvement one must have a critic close
by. The villagers were charitable enough. They gladly conceded the role that
he often assumed: of a virtual ombudsman for the village. Now things are different
everywhere. Nobody tolerates anybody's criticism. Our youngsters believe that
their lives are their own affairs of which they are the best judges. The proposition
is right when one is free from arrogance and ignorance. These days the youngsters
would refuse to listen to their parents and elders but would avidly and uncritically
accept what comes out in the press, what is written on the posters, what they
see in the movies and what they hear form the persuaders who abound these day
in plenty.
My grand-father had an extraordinary capacity to remain composed
even in moments in which most of us are swept away in emotions. An instance
comes to my mind. My grandmother was suffering from a terminal illness. Arrangement
had been made to take her to the bank of the Ganges at Semariya Ghat, at the
bank of the Ganges, where she could breathe her last. Those days most persons
died without being in hurry to pop off suddenly. Everybody in the family, except
him, was in tears, and crying. He quoted the Bhagavad-Gita to tell that a beautiful
bird which warbled in prision for a while would be freed to sing to the Lord
His glory as seen by her during this sort sojourn. Then he sat on a wooden plank
singing:
Phaguna ke dina char,
Holi Khel mana re.
His end came after a long and lingering illness. All his sons
were around except my father who was in the Darbhanga jail undergoing rigorous
imprisonment for his participation in the Quite India Movement, the final and
most crucial phase in our country's Struggle for Independence. He called my
mother and asked her that she should send me to the cremation ground to represent
my father. It was the first time that I saw the man dying and then be cremated.
While we were in the cremation ground my father joined us as he saw us from
a distance on his way home after being released form his imprisonment.
His end came after a long and lingering illness. All his sons
were around except my father who was in the Darbhanga jail undergoing rigorous
imprisonment for his participation in the Quite India Movement, the final and
most crucial phase in our country's Struggle for Independence. He called my
mother and asked her that she should send me to the cremation ground to represent
my father. It was the first time that I saw the man dying and then be cremated.
While we were in the cremation ground my father joined us as he saw us from
a distance on his way home after being released form his imprisonment.
Jai Ram Jai Ram Jai Jai Ram
Sri Ram Jai Ram Jai Jai Ram
Later I came to know that it was a custom to plant peepal
sapling to mark the place of cremation. Didn't s Krishna calls Himself a peepal
tree amongst trees?. The Lord said in the Bhagavadgita (X.26: asvatthah
sarvavrksanam .The offering of the water to the peepal sapling is done
so that it can grow carrying the atoms and molecules of the dead through its
system to the leaves constantly devoted in the Lord's prayer. That experience
deepened in my mind the pathos of these lines which Shah Jahan wrote to Aurangzeb
when the ungrateful son stopped supply of water from the Jamuna:
“ Praised be the Hindus in all cases,
As they ever offer water to their dead
And thou, my son, art a marvellous Mussalman,
As thou causest me in life to lament for (lack of) water. ”
My grandfather had five sons and two daughters. The eldest
son, Ramchandra, died while he was a student. The other four sons were: Ramakant,
Lakshmikant, Gopikant and Srikant. His daughters were married, and had good
life in the families of their in-laws in some nearby villages. Grandfather never
expected anything from his children. His needs were so few that he hardly needed
anybody's assistance. In every matter he would ask himself : Can I do without
it. If he got answer yes he would surely avoid that. Through this process of
elimination he kept his needs to the minimum. He always cut his coat according
to his cloth. He was never a borrower except of good ideas. He always carried
the wisdom of the following lines:
Be it joy or sorrow, dear or not that
Accept whatever comes as prasada,
But always with a heart and mind
Free from the sense of defeat.
VI
My eldest uncle was Ramchandra who died young. I didn't see
him nor I heard much about him. Once during my boyhood days I accompanied my
father to the Pustak Bhandar at Laheriasarai. Its owner was Acharya Ramlochan
Sharan He was one of the rare souls whose personality had so many dimensions.
He was a great scholar and had written a number of books of very high standard.
He was a distinguished patron for poets and authors. When my father met him
he read out some of the Chaupies from his Maithili translation of the Ramcharitmanas
by Tulsidas. Impressed by my father he asked him about the village to which
he belonged. On hearing that he belonged to Kurson, he asked him if he knew
Ramakant who had been with him at school but died soon after. Father told him
that Ramchandra Babu was his eldest brother. For some time he was trying to
conceal his tears in the corners of his impressive broad eyes as the misers
concea gold from public gaze. But on hearing that the man before him was a brother
of his most intimate friend, his tears trickled down but got arrested on way
in the glossy ivory coloured moustache which the Acharya flaunted in the style
of Maharana Pratap.
My second maternal uncle, Ramakant, had many things in common
with a Shakespearean tragic hero. He had infinite potentialities but had some
tragic traits too. He fought for the freedom of the country, and went jail but
never made politics his vocation. He was an excellent teacher who could bring
to track even those students who had been written off by their parents.. He
earned the name of Vishnu Sharma, the famous author of the Panchtantra ,
who had taught the king's sons when the king had lost all hope that they would
ever acquire competence expected from the king's sons. When he sang patriotic
songs he could set aflame even sunken souls. One heard a resonance of the Panchjanya
in his exposition. Such persons are not seen now. My wife aptly said that
God has now permanently retired the mould and frame in which such heroic patriotic
persons were once made.
My third uncle, Laxmikant Jha, was an expert in agrarian matters.
He looked after his maternal uncle's property and acquired, in the process,
a good understanding of the complex agrarian laws. His sense of justice was
so perfect that persons of all social strata used to come to him for solving
disputes. The heart of the matter was that he had acquired well his skill for
proper hearing (samyaka shravan).He divided listeners into three
categories (I) those who can catch suggestions as did Janaka when communicating
with Ashtavakra (because both were most enlightened) ; (ii) those who can learn
after waging a battle of wits as Arjuna did in the Bhagvadgita , and
(iii) those who can never learn even if Lord Brahma comes to teach them. He
was in the top class.
My youngest uncle, Shrikant, lived a life in its many colours.
He had an affluent boyhood in the family of his maternal uncle. He had a comfortable
manhood but a difficult old age. He was named Shrikant but Shri (wealth) never
smiled on him. I hold him in high admiration, and am indebted to him in more
than one ways. Without him birds would have been mere birds and flowers mere
flowers. He knew their names and had observed their notes and habits. Dan Lehrman
worked on the behaviour of the mating of the ring dove. If my uncle would have
recorded his observations on how the birds behaved in moments of distress or
of elation or of romance, he would have got a magnum opus to his credit. His
observations were precise. He would call flowers and fruits, birds and beasts,
by their specific name. He explained their painful gestures and also their romantic
gyrations in his lucid vernacular sprinkled with quotations of all sorts.
VII
The Chaudhuries were important Zamindars. They migrated to
the village Kurson from some other village. They were Jugmohan Singh Chaudhry,
Dular Singh Chaudhry and Mohan Singh Chaudhry, the sons of Nehal Singh Chaudhary.
Nehal singh was so eminent that after his name a new panji was recognised called
Nahal Singh Choudhary Panji. They founded three deodhis, two in Kurson and one
in Dasunt a nearby village. The Chaudharies were liberal people and believed
in religious syncretism. Jagmohan founded Radha Krishana Mandir in Dasaut. In
Kurson Dular Singh founded Durga Mandir whereas Mohan Singh founded Sita Ram
Mandir.
The Sri Ram temple has a massive structure cast in semi-gothic
style. Men and women assembled in the temple for Puja and for listening to the
sacred discourse by the Pandits. On the back verandah of the temple , there
was a huge folded Shamiana, a virtual ravine for children to hide themselves
both in the game of hide-and-seek, and also from the eyes of their parents.
To get on the top of the mound was really to be at the top of the world. Adjacent
to this magnificent temple there is a Mahadeva temple. The temples of Kali and
Durga were located at about a kilometre from the Sri Ram temple. This was a
mud-built huge building. The story goes that the images of Kali manifested themselves
while a tank was being dug in the vicinity. Every year during the Dussehra festival
images of Kali and Durga were made out of clay. The images were in the classical
mould. The Pujas were performed in a strict conformity with the Tantric tradition.
Persons from far and wide were drawn to the Radhkrishnan temple during the Jhula
festival. Thus the three great persons of the Chaudhary family struck the syncretic
note in the religious pursuits of the village.
My father's maternal uncle was Krishna Narayan Chaudhary,
a son of Govind Narayan Chaudhary who was one of the several sons of Mohan Singh
Chaudhary. (The short family tree of the Chaudharies has been drawn up in the
Annex to this Chapter). He had a colourful personality and varied interests
in arts, specially music and dance. He was a patron for artists. He allowed
his mundane matters to slip out of his control. He became an easy victim of
the chicaneryof his courtiers who multiplied in his declining years to siphon
off his wealth.. During his life he traveled from affluence to abject poverty.
VII
The Chaudhuries were important Zamindars. They migrated to
the village Kurson from some other village. They were Jugmohan Singh Chaudhry,
Dular Singh Chaudhry and Mohan Singh Chaudhry, the sons of Nehal Singh Chaudhary.
Nehal singh was so eminent that after his name a new panji was recognised called
Nahal Singh Choudhary Panji. They founded three deodhis, two in Kurson and one
in Dasunt a nearby village. The Chaudharies were liberal people and believed
in religious syncretism. Jagmohan founded Radha Krishana Mandir in Dasaut. In
Kurson Dular Singh founded Durga Mandir whereas Mohan Singh founded Sita Ram
Mandir.
The Sri Ram temple has a massive structure cast in semi-gothic
style. Men and women assembled in the temple for Puja and for listening to the
sacred discourse by the Pandits. On the back verandah of the temple , there
was a huge folded Shamiana, a virtual ravine for children to hide themselves
both in the game of hide-and-seek, and also from the eyes of their parents.
To get on the top of the mound was really to be at the top of the world. Adjacent
to this magnificent temple there is a Mahadeva temple. The temples of Kali and
Durga were located at about a kilometre from the Sri Ram temple. This was a
mud-built huge building. The story goes that the images of Kali manifested themselves
while a tank was being dug in the vicinity. Every year during the Dussehra festival
images of Kali and Durga were made out of clay. The images were in the classical
mould. The Pujas were performed in a strict conformity with the Tantric tradition.
Persons from far and wide were drawn to the Radhkrishnan temple during the Jhula
festival. Thus the three great persons of the Chaudhary family struck the syncretic
note in the religious pursuits of the village.
My father's maternal uncle was Krishna Narayan Chaudhary, a
son of Govind Narayan Chaudhary who was one of the several sons of Mohan Singh
Chaudhary. (The short family tree of the Chaudharies has been drawn up in the
Annex to this Chapter). He had a colourful personality and varied interests
in arts, specially music and dance. He was a patron for artists. He allowed
his mundane matters to slip out of his control. He became an easy victim of
the chicaneryof his courtiers who multiplied in his declining years to siphon
off his wealth. During his life he traveled from affluence to abject poverty.
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